Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.1 Corinthians 15:33 We need to talk. I ain’t lied to y’all before and I ain’t about to start now. I was gonna go somewhere completelyyyyy different this week, but this post was needed. Like, I was ready to talk about some of the red flags in (Un)Christian … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae: Flirt
Hey Guys, So before I give you my diary of a mad black woman story, I wanna set you a challenge, are you ready? I want you to choose mission over marriage. Let it not be your mission to be married, but let’s be excited for the things God wants us to do in our … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae: Marriage or Mission?
As Christians how are we comfortable dating people who are at odds with God? Why do we ask God for men that we can build with and yet entertain fantasies of relationships with men who have not yet chosen a firm foundation? Why do we compromise on Christ?
Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.James 4:7 In the spirit of honesty, I should tell you that after last week’s post, my ex-boyfriend (who we will rename “WannaBae”) reached out to me. Oh yes, oh yes. Lemme not joke, it was quite a surprise. I mean, this … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae: Dumping The Devil
4 I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, until he please.Song of Solomon 8 v 4 I think King Solomon was on to something when he was putting his eponymous book together, and since I am my father's daughter, I wanted to throw in my penny's worth... … Continue reading Introducing… The Chronicles of Bae
The letter I wish I had given you when we met... My darling, my sweetheart, my future. My Love. Can I still call you that after all that has transpired? I remember when we used to call ourselves so many sweet names, until eventually we stopping calling ourselves completely. You had me longing for the … Continue reading Love Letters: To a King
Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. Proverbs 4 v 23 Love, and the period leading to falling in love, is a beautiful thing. You know the feeling, when you meet someone, boy meets girl, girl meets boy, boy tells girl how he feels and girl … Continue reading Relationship Corner: When Should I Tell Others About My Relationship?
What if? What if I was you? And I was treating you the way you are treating me? It's as if you accept that I deserve better but you're not willing to give it to me. So little time, so much to do. So little time, so much to say. So many apologies, so little … Continue reading What If?
I can't deal. I can't deal with the drama. I can't deal with the disappointment. I can't deal with the endless discussions in which we keep discussing the same thing. What are you willing to do? I can't deal with the doubts. I can't deal with the distraction. I can't deal with the strange new … Continue reading I Can’t Deal: An(other) Open Letter To My Love
Is there a difference between being lonely and single....? Single to me means unmarried, not dating, living life independently, whereas lonely carries a connotation of isolation and misery. I'm going to be really honest, there was a time when I didn't use to think there was a difference between the two, which is really weird … Continue reading Lonely or Single – What’s The Difference?