This week marks the last week of 6 Red Flags. Yaaay. Lol. I won't lie, I am - and will be - glad to put this to bed. It has been an emotional journey recalling some of my dating errors, and I am tired lol. So far, we have looked at five flags in depth … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae – 6 Red Flags (Part V)
16 These six things doth the Lord hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:17 A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,18 An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief,19 A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.Proverbs 6 v 16-19 So far, we have … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae – 6 Red Flags (Part IV)
"A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother." Proverbs 18v24 I wanna begin this week with one story, because stories help me remember, and when I remember, I am reminded that I actually lived this life... In 2015, a couple - both of … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae – 6 Red Flags (Part III)
My flesh and my heart faileth: but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion for ever Psalm 73v26 I’m going to be the first one to say it - I missed this last week. I hadn’t anticipated that I would have taken a week off my blog after seven weeks of consistent … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae – 6 Red Flags (Part II)
Wrath is cruel, and anger is outrageous; but who is able to stand before envy? Proverbs 27 v 4 “I don’t want to see him” I said flatly, attempting to stay the anger that was rising inside. I had always respected my Pastor. He had encouraged me more times than I could remember and he … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae: 6 Red Flags (Part I)
Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.1 Corinthians 15:33 We need to talk. I ain’t lied to y’all before and I ain’t about to start now. I was gonna go somewhere completelyyyyy different this week, but this post was needed. Like, I was ready to talk about some of the red flags in (Un)Christian … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae: Flirt
Hey Guys, So before I give you my diary of a mad black woman story, I wanna set you a challenge, are you ready? I want you to choose mission over marriage. Let it not be your mission to be married, but let’s be excited for the things God wants us to do in our … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae: Marriage or Mission?
As Christians how are we comfortable dating people who are at odds with God? Why do we ask God for men that we can build with and yet entertain fantasies of relationships with men who have not yet chosen a firm foundation? Why do we compromise on Christ?
Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.James 4:7 In the spirit of honesty, I should tell you that after last week’s post, my ex-boyfriend (who we will rename “WannaBae”) reached out to me. Oh yes, oh yes. Lemme not joke, it was quite a surprise. I mean, this … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae: Dumping The Devil
So I am going to start with another confession - some people are addictive. Some men, just can't be resisted, at least that's how it feels, and my Ex felt like one of those men. They say that the devil comes dressed for church too, and boy does he dress well. He also happens to be just your height, fit and type. But scratch beneath the surface and you'll find something missing....