As Christians how are we comfortable dating people who are at odds with God? Why do we ask God for men that we can build with and yet entertain fantasies of relationships with men who have not yet chosen a firm foundation? Why do we compromise on Christ?
Tag: Relationships
The Chronicles of Bae: Dumping The Devil
Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.James 4:7 In the spirit of honesty, I should tell you that after last week’s post, my ex-boyfriend (who we will rename “WannaBae”) reached out to me. Oh yes, oh yes. Lemme not joke, it was quite a surprise. I mean, this … Continue reading The Chronicles of Bae: Dumping The Devil
Introducing… The Chronicles of Bae
4 I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, until he please.Song of Solomon 8 v 4 I think King Solomon was on to something when he was putting his eponymous book together, and since I am my father's daughter, I wanted to throw in my penny's worth... … Continue reading Introducing… The Chronicles of Bae
Love, Lust and Sensitivity: Lessons From Samson’s Downfall
15 And she said unto him, How canst thou say, I love thee, when thine heart is not with me? thou hast mocked me these three times, and hast not told me wherein thy great strength lieth. 16 And it came to pass, when she pressed him daily with her words, and urged him, so that his … Continue reading Love, Lust and Sensitivity: Lessons From Samson’s Downfall
Samuel, Delilah and The Art of War
4 And it came to pass afterward, that he loved a woman in the valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah. Judges 16:4 Perhaps 2018 is the year of exploring unconventional women in the Bible, because Delilah is another lady who has a lesson to teach us, not just we modern women, but Christians generally. Delilah … Continue reading Samuel, Delilah and The Art of War
Relationship Corner: When Should I Tell Others About My Relationship?
Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. Proverbs 4 v 23 Love, and the period leading to falling in love, is a beautiful thing. You know the feeling, when you meet someone, boy meets girl, girl meets boy, boy tells girl how he feels and girl … Continue reading Relationship Corner: When Should I Tell Others About My Relationship?
I Can’t Deal: An(other) Open Letter
I can't deal. I can't deal with the drama. I can't deal with the disappointment. I can't deal with the endless discussions in which we keep discussing the same thing. What are you willing to do? I can't deal with the doubts. I can't deal with the distraction. I can't deal with the strange new … Continue reading I Can’t Deal: An(other) Open Letter
Lonely or Single – What’s The Difference?
Is there a difference between being lonely and single....? Single to me means unmarried, not dating, living life independently, whereas lonely carries a connotation of isolation and misery. I'm going to be really honest, there was a time when I didn't use to think there was a difference between the two, which is really weird … Continue reading Lonely or Single – What’s The Difference?
What Type of Friend Will You Be In 2017?
Happy New Year Everyone. This year, I hope we can all strive to become better friends to each other. I was pondering the state of friendships, which has become so messy with the invention of 'frenemies', and I was reminded of something I wrote a few years back.... God help the man who sows dissention … Continue reading What Type of Friend Will You Be In 2017?
What Type of Friend Are You?
The Bible tells us what types of people we should have near us, and the types we should avoid, but what about our FRIENDSHIPS? The Book of Proverbs chapter 27 tells us that Iron sharpens Iron but who/what is sharpening you? And who are you sharpening, if anything at all?? Here are two types of … Continue reading What Type of Friend Are You?
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